WhatsYOURanimal eAnimals: Kozy Juggling Taste Buds for Christmas!?!

WhatsYOURanimal eAnimals: Kozy Juggling Taste Buds for Christmas!?!: Older Kozy is fretting over how to juggle the taste buds of her family over Christmas this year: Let's see, Older Solomon doesn't eat any...

Kozy Juggling Taste Buds for Christmas!?!

Older Kozy is fretting over how to juggle the taste buds of her family over Christmas this year:

Let's see, Older Solomon doesn't eat any meat or fish or raw fruits and vegetables ( kind of like a vegetarian that doesn't really like vegetables-mac and cheese for him.)

Younger Buddy doesn't eat many vegetables and is extremely allergic to nuts and shellfish.

Younger Kozy is partial to any meats that are organic and humanely treated (who could be against that?)

Younger Trooper really likes shellfish and her two offspring very young Solomon and very young Buddy say "oh yuk" to most things except for chicken strips dipped in Ranch-(much to the chagrin of their parents younger Buddy and the aforementioned younger Trooper, who are trying to eat healthily and expose their offspring to healthy fruits and veg-- to expand their horizons so that they will not be picky when they grow up.)

What's Kozy to do? Any ideas?

Forgiveness looks like what?

This is a startlingly powerful vision of forgiveness in my opinion:

Forgiveness is the boundary between exclusion and embrace. It heals the wounds that the power-acts of exclusion have inflicted and breaks down the dividing wall of hostility. Yet it leaves a distance between people, an empty space of neutrality, that allows them either to go their separate ways in what is sometimes called ‘peace’ or to fall into each other’s arms and restore broken communion.

Miroslav Volf

definition of insanity?

You've heard that the definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."

I would say this is the definition of normal. Each of us most likely has noticed getting locked into a familiar argument with a loved one or friend which ends badly (as usual).

I certainly have. And when the argument is over, I'm scratching my head thinking "what just happened?"

Well, probably what just happened is that your wounded "little guy" inside of you ( say around 5 years old) is arguing with the wounded "little guy" in the other person. What if you could see these wounded "little guys" as lovable animals? It might be easier to gain perspective and have a chuckle in the meantime.

Gain insight to break frustrating patterns with loved ones ( or boss)! Find out the style of your "little guy" inside of you by taking www.whatsyouranimal.com quiz. Then read the Care & Feeding documents for your "little guy's" style.

WhatsYOURanimal eAnimals: How is the "little guy" inside of you?

WhatsYOURanimal eAnimals: How is the "little guy" inside of you?: How is the “little guy” inside of you? You would like to know how he is running your your life, right? We each have a childhood trance ...

How is the "little guy" inside of you?

How is the “little guy” inside of you? You would like to know how he is running your your life, right?

We each have a childhood trance or ego style (our "little guy") that developed a strategy to deflect pain and negative consequences in our childhood. Our "little guy" has a “knee jerk” script which is often triggered by present circumstances which remind us of childhood events. When this happens our "little guy" takes over with emotions, thoughts and actions which sometimes may even seem "out of place." Sound familiar?

Which one of these EAnimal "little guys" most resembles your "little guy's" style?

Take the quiz www.whatsyouranimal.com to find out. After you discover your inner EAnimal read your "Care and Feeding" papers to help you be more fully in control of your life!

Are You Driving a Model T?

I teach about the 9 different styles of relating ( Enneagram theory) and how each of us adopts a style in childhood that suits our inborn traits as well as our environment. This style that we adopted in childhood limits our choices and narrows our field of experiences as an adult.

Imagine using the same pattern of thinking (childhood preferred style) over and over no matter what the circumstance! That would be like continuing to drive a Model T, meant for the small dirt roads of the past, on the 21st century expressway that is your life now!

Excerpt from EAnimals story

Champ shook her head to bring herself back to the present. At that moment she saw Picasso sidling up to the stable looking a little sheepish, if a gorgeous peacock could look sheepish. “ Great to see you today Pico --how are those yoga classes going? Are they helping your back?”

“Yoga is going well, just practicing my meditations this morning.”

“That’s the secret, a lot of practice.”

Excerpt from "Picasso's Tail"

Her tail, Picasso thought, must truly be Magnificent because the others could hardly look her in the eye or speak to her directly when it was up, for gazing at the shimmering blues and greens that change with the slightest tilt of direction.

But the main reason she loved her poetic kaleidoscope tail was that she felt special and beautiful and real when she shared it. However, the raising of it was difficult, not just physically, but because of the exquisite vulnerability of the thing.

Constantly taking care of others???

Do you ever work too hard to take care of others and not hard enough taking care of your personal business or emotional needs? If so, you may like Kozy's "Care and Feeding" instructions! http://www.whatsyouranimal.com

EAnimals at the Sea View inn

Solomon comments that he is so relieved that Kozy decided not to bring the Kayaks this year, so that he can relax and not worry about her paddling out too far looking for dolphins and sea turtles.

Kozy floats a little too far out on the huge round orange float that she finds under the house.

Zee, though having been under the weather, courageously swims out against the current to bring her to safety. He decides to recover by signing up for several of the massages that are offered at the Inn.

Trooper names Kozy's float the "SS Histrionic".

Solomon fusses at Kozy and suggests that she may have put Zee at some risk.

Picasso reads her book about beach yoga.

Champ rakes the sand for a rousing game of Beach Bocce Ball.

Buddy agrees to take a walk after dinner with his good friend Picasso and discuss the books they are both reading.

Einstein avoids the sun and reads the Wall Street Journal on the porch. He will go for a swim later when the sun is low and the others are on the porch drinking Libertea and such.

Chief will fly down in his private plane to join them later in the week, after his business meeting.

Kozy puts the SS Histrionic back under the house and decides to rent a surf board instead which she named "Old Yeller" because of it's vivid yellow hue. Unfortunately Kozy is unable to stand up on Old Yeller.

Solomon and Trooper decide that since they were on vacation, they should summon grace when it came to Kozy's quirky sea toys. . . Kozy appreciates the support.

Taming Your Inner Buddy "Quick Study"

Taming Buddy “Quick Study”

Catch yourself in the act of Buddy behaviors and thoughts

1. Have a chuckle while being aware of your inner Buddy’s routine.
2. Accept your Buddy parts completely without judging:
3. Say “It is what it is.”
4. This will open you up to using the other 8 less used styles as you need them.

The Fourth of July Family Reunion

EAnimals Fourth of July Family Reunion

Young Solomon having imbibed a respectable amount of his homemade LiberTea is teaching little Buddy and little Solomon how to spit water out of their mouths by taking large gulps of water and slapping their cheeks with their hands so that the water spurts straight out.

The two older Solomons are shaking their heads and discussing how this will lead to problems in the future.

Kozy is running around making sure everyone has water to drink so that no one gets dehydrated in the 93 degree weather. ( The next day Kozy relaxes into her inner Picasso and writes a story about the reunion.)

Trooper is working like a dog (sorry Buddy) running back and forth from the grill with giant amounts of ribs, Beer Can chicken, hot dogs, hambugers, and grilled in the husk corn. Everyone later agreed that without Trooper the event wouldn't have been possible!

Younger Buddy the father of the little Buddy and little Solomon makes 20 trips to take the little ones to the facilities after swallowing so much water practicing the squirting maneuver.

Older Buddy is taking pictures of the entire family out on the lawn.

Quite a few of the other Buddys & Kozys are thoroughly enjoying their food and complimenting the cook!

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You Know the Type!

Sometimes we'll say to each other "You know the type." We notice that different people have different styles of being, relating, living. We notice that some people's styles are somewhat similar.

What if you could get a whole lot smarter about these styles and have some fun in the process?

EAnimals is that Shorthand Fun Easy way to understand the 9 different styles.

EAnimals introduce the 9 basic Styles of Being, Relating, and Living!

EAnimals succinctly illustrate the complicated concepts of the Enneagram--a personality system so popular that there's even an Idiot's Guide to the Enneagram!!

EAnimals is the TRUE idiots guide--a primer so fun and easy that a child can get it!

Meet the beautiful animated animals that speak with their own style, music and color.

It will change the way you think about yourself and others. You will begin to understand the 9 styles of being. You may be able to accept and have more compassion for yourself and others.

Visit www.whatsyouranimal.com

You'll "get" yourself and others in a way you've probably never experienced before!

Positive Parenting Power!

Do you ever feel like there is an unseen entity inside of you that takes over when you become stressed as a parent?

Actually there are 9 unseen entities out there controlling each of us. Find out which one of these "little guys" inside you influences your Parenting Style the most!

Know your Style and get Control with more Positive Parenting Power! FREE style indicator and FREE downloads to Tame your "little guy" inside!! WhatsYOURanimal eAnimals

EAnimal Wild Things: Champ

Champ Wild Things:

Always pushing for success and constantly optimizing every situation can be stressful if
not balanced by other aspects of your life. Your style is to speed through life and you may need to be reminded to slow down. It’s hard for you, though, so when you are smelling those roses you may photographing them as well.

Wealth: Picasso Style

Wealth: Picasso Style

Again practicality is the key. You have the strength to work at a

mundane or less than satisfying job while you save the money $$ to get you to a
place where you can integrate your artistic, writing, counseling, teaching talents into
your career.

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Solomon Principled Rational Moral Leader: organized, idealistic, perfectionistic, hardworking, critical, improvement oriented, fair?

Kozy Caring Compassionate Helper: friendly, affectionate, persuasive, emotional, manipulative, encouraging, people pleasing?

Champ Motivating Energetic Achiever : determined, industrious, goal oriented, adaptable, competitive, image conscious, confident?

Picasso Discriminating, Intuitive Romantic: intense, sensitive, expressive, creative, individualistic, self-absorbed, spiritual

Einstein Investigative, Innovative Thinker: observant, objective, independent, detached, fair, curious, analytical, eccentric, reserved?

Trooper Hardworking, Loyal Team Player: protective, organized, analytical, safety conscious, questioning, contradictory, cautious?

Zee Fun Loving, Optimistic Explorer: energetic, eager, cheerful, sociable, enthusiastic, possibility driven, scattered, resourceful?

Chief Confident, Challenging CEO independent, powerful, blunt, energetic, impulsive, stubborn, passionate, confrontational?

Buddy PeaceLoving, Reassuring Companion affectionate, laid back, receptive, accommodating, even-tempered, stubborn, agreeable?

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EAnimals In Love: Chief

Use your considerable charisma to unite others rather than divide them. Remember to be gentle in words and actions. You are truly a powerhouse!

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EAnimals' Love Languages: Einstein

Please allow me my space. My liking to be alone does not have anything to do with not liking you.

I will come to you to interact more easily when there is no pressure.

Just because I am alone frequently, it does not mean that I am lonely.

I like to think things through and use my head to make decisions.

More to come. . .

EAnimals A-Hoy Ploy!

When Buddy emerged from Chief's large vessel brokerage office wearing a captains hat, ascot and carrying a rhinestone-studded life-preserver, he was immediately spotted by Picasso who was both impressed and jealous, the former taking control of her psyche, she spread her ample plume and strutted towards Buddy full of ceremonious regalia. "Buddy! you look wonderful, what brings you to this side of the bridge?!"

Buddy, full of pomp and circumstance responded: "My ship has come in, my dear bird - literally!" "Well whatever do you mean, you dog?! Picasso flitteringly replied. "I hit it big on my Linkened-in IPO shares which Trooper told me about. Of course he was too busy working to actually cash-in himself, but I'll repay him by letting him swab the deck on my 120 ft P&J yacht."

"Well, perhaps you will need a navigator, one who can put a little wind in your sails..." responded Picasso. "Perhaps, but it doesn't have sails, it's an inboard luxury world cruiser complete with a crew of 12, full satellite navigation and the finest in maintenance and insurance contract add ons that money can buy, which is something I have plenty of, only cost me 12 million which leaves me 5 to roll into my next big venture!" Picasso, still impressed but growing bored with the conversation, replied: "Oh and what might that be?"

"Well," Buddy responded, "Now you can't tell anyone, but Chief has agreed to sell me the draw-bridge behind us for 7 million and loan me the 2M I'm short at the moment, sky's the limit! Toot-a-loo, my fine feathered friend! Oh, and by the way, why don't you drop on by the yacht club sometime, hmmm, hmm, hmmmm!!!"

EAnimals: Buddy Gets LinkedIn

Buddy got in on the initial offering (IPO) of LinkedIn and now is worth 17 million dollars. But trouble could be on the horizon, Trooper spotted him heading down to Wrightsville Beach and turning into Chief's Palmer and Johnson yacht outlet. Stay tuned.

EAnimals and Wealth: Trooper Style

Wealth: Here it will help to check your gut feelings on whether your decisions are
financially sound. Be careful not to be drawn into “get rich quick schemes” or
questionable financial decisions that well-meaning friends or family may try to talk you
into. Remember, one of your most valuable assets is your analytic mind. Be sure to use

it when making decisions about your money.

EAnimals and Wealth: Kozy Style

Kozy & Wealth:

Of course it is blessed to give! But you need to make sure you pay the Kozy piggy bank first. If you give away all your money, you may become a burden on others instead of a blessing.

EAnimals and Wealth: Solomon Style

Solomon & Wealth: Because of your stability and balance and dedication to doing the right thing building wealth is usually not much of a problem for you. You are good with money and usually diligent to save for the future. Remember, others around you can learn from your example of good management of resources.

EAnimals Decide to Start a Bunny Farm!

Solomon heard that Bunnies are discarded in shelters almost as often as dogs and cats and decides they should do something about it.

Kozy loves the idea and squeals with delight thinking of how many Baby Bunnies she can Fit Into Her Pouch.

Champ suggests a business idea: kind of a win-win proposal. Save Bunnies from the shelter and open a site for children to visit and learn about Bunnies (for a small fee, of course.)

Picasso thinks about how sad and unkind it is for people to buy Bunnies for their children if they are not prepared to take care of them.

Einstein is not sure about her role in this whole Bunny Hop Thing and goes to discuss it with Trooper.

Trooper is pretty sure the bunnies will be a lot of trouble and is planning a fence to keep them in and a bunny waste removal protocol.

Zee starts making a playground for the Bunnies out of all the recyclables he's been saving for something!

Chief is nonchalant. He was secretly fond of the floppy eared Bunny in his 4th grade classroom, and would sneak carrots from home to feed her.

Buddy is looking up interesting facts about all the different kinds of Bunnies on the internet.

EAnimals in Relationships: Zee

Relationships: Your friends enjoy your company and often find you fascinating to be with. Remember that you are probably more energetic and adventurous that most of your friends and family. Slow down to their speed occasionally and take care to really connect on a personal level.

EAnimals: If you're a Picasso. . .

Love (Relationships): Reach out to loved ones instead of waiting for them to open up to you. Even if youʼre unsure of where you stand, make the first move to reconnect. Do this with the confidence of someone who knows she has unique gifts to offer others.

EAnimals: If you're a Champ. . .

Remember, you are the hard-working, motivating, achiever intent on being successful. You are an energetic workhorse as well as racehorse--one of the most tireless, competent and professional of all 9 types. There are many challenges in life, and you are determined to excell in your endeavors whether at work or in your leisure activities.

EAnimals: Does this sounds like you?

If you scored highest as Solomon there’s a good probability that Solomon is your EAnimal type. If so, that means that you are a principled, rational, moral leader with the purpose of getting life right. You want to find the most noble way to live your life and relate to others.

"Taming your EAnimal" Buddy

Taming Buddy “Quick Study”

1. Catch yourself in the act of Buddy behaviors and thoughts

2. Have a chuckle while being aware of your inner Buddyʼs routine.

3. Accept your Buddy parts completely without judging:

4. Say “It is what it is.”

5. This will open you up to using the other 8 less used styles as you need them.

Does this sound like you?

Do you ever work too hard to take care of others and not hard enough taking care of your personal business or emotional needs? If so, you may like Kozy's "Care and Feeding" instructions at www.whatsyouranimal.com

EAnimals in Love! Trooper

Love (Relationships): You’re very loyal to your friends who are fortunate to have you in their corner. Remember your boundaries with others, and be careful not to take on others’ problems at the expense of your own well-being.

EAnimals in Love! Chief

Love (Relationships): Use your considerable charisma to unite others rather than divide them. Remember to be gentle in words and actions. You are truly a powerhouse!

EAnimals in Love! Buddy

Relationships: In your desire to keep the peace, you may avoid the important communication that keeps relationships running smoothly. Your desire not to offend others may cause you to build up resentment that one day may explode. This “keeping the peace” strategy may actually cause more tension in the long run than asserting your wishes up front. Don’t let small relational issues turn into big ones by neglecting to speak up.

EAnimals in Love! Trooper

Love (Relationships): You’re very loyal to your friends who are fortunate to have you in their corner. Remember your boundaries with others, and be careful not to take on others’ problems at the expense of your own well-being.

Eanimals in Love! Kozy

Love (Relationships): Saying “no” to a special friend or loved one is hard, but as you practice this more often, you will find you have more energy, are happier, and more fun to be around.

EAnimals in Love! Picasso

Picasso in Love. . . .

Love (Relationships): Reach out to loved ones instead of waiting for them to open up to you. Even if youʼre unsure of where you stand, make the first move to reconnect. Do this with the confidence of someone who knows she has unique gifts to offer others.

EAnimals: Does this sounds like you?

Einstein, you are the investigative, innovative thinker who is tirelessly curious about life and what it teaches you. You like to study topics and delve into projects in depth so that you can become expert in a couple of key areas. You probably think that there is never enough time to pursue your many interests.

Does this sounds like You?

You, Trooper, are a hard-working and loyal team player who protects your group with diligence and faithfulness. You find security for yourself and those around you by anticipating problems which may bring trouble to the group. Thus, you often take the questioning or devil’s advocate position to protect those around you. You use your analytic mind to make decisions based on realism instead of idealism.

Eanimals: You have Zee!!

You, Zee, are a fun-loving, optimistic, explorer seeking adventure in the world. Thinking of new possibilities is exciting to you and drives a lot of your thinking and actions. You’re enjoy the change of seasons because it presents new possibilities and breaks the routine. Your positive outlook and unbridled enthusiasm is infectious to others. Others generally are attracted to your company. You are often the life of the party. You are future oriented and have the knack of getting others just as excited about your future plans as you are.

EAnimals: Zee Wild Things!

Zee Wild Things:

Beware of getting in the way of Zee and his excitement over a new venture, trip, or opportunity to purchase the latest cool computer or smart phone. Zee gets so wrapped up in his positive vision of how wonderful the future could be if he just had (fill in the blank), that it’s difficult for him to think of any downside, much less weigh different options. If you want to see a very frustrated, perhaps aggressive Zee, try getting in the way of his latest wonderful new plan!

EAnimals: Trooper Wild Things!

Trooper Wild Things:

Trooper is usually skeptical about the motives of those outside his group. He spends much energy managing his thoughts that the world is an
unreliable place. His subconscious fear is that there are no stable and dependable
systems to which to attach. To keep this fear from overwhelming him, Trooper scans
his environment looking for groups, organizations, or people to whom he can be loyal. On the other hand, some Troopers may be quite rebellious to authority figures seeking to avoid past disappointments.

EAnimals: Einstein Wild Things!

Einstein Wild Things:

Einstein’s fear is that she does not possess the inner resources needed to deal with the overwhelming challenges of life. She may become fixated on finding ways to create longed for order in her world. She thinks that this perfect order would allow her the “down time” she craves to inhabit the interesting & wonderful world inside her head. Einstein can guard her time rigorously, even pushing loved ones away, when she feels her boundaries are being overwhelmed by others or events.

EAnimals: Picasso Wild Things!

Picasso Wild Things:

Sometimes the romantic in you longs for the perfect so intensely than you may miss the good in your life. Because of your poetic heart you may over-romanticize life in ways that get in the way of living practically in the here and now. Although longing for perfection in a less than perfect world is a helpful stimulus for creativity, remember to temper this longing with a healthy dose of common sense and realism. Just because a situation is not perfect does not mean that it is irrevocably flawed.

EAnimals: Champ Wild Things!

Champ Wild Things:

Always pushing for success and constantly optimizing every situation can be stressful if not balanced by other aspects of your life. Your style is to speed through life and you may need to be reminded to slow down. It’s hard for you, though, so when you are smelling those roses you may photographing them as well.

Opportunities seem everywhere for you and you have the energy to take advantage of most of them. Remember, however, that over-emphasis on success and winning can hamper intimacy in your relationships. Others may not be as “can do” as you are. You may need to slow down a little for the others to catch up to you. You’ll have a some relaxing fun as a bonus. Others want to know the real you, not just what you can accomplish for them.

EAnimals: Kozy Wild Things!

Kozy Wild Things:

But even you can get worn out with all this unselfish activity and altruism and become exhausted. However you may deny or ignore these feelings. You really want to please those around you. You will convince yourself that you enjoy your lifestyle of giving and compromising what you want.

At some point, however it may become too much: When you notice that no one is taking care of you, you may become a little irritated. Well-meaning friends and family may even try to step in and help you set boundaries for yourself. When they say “You need to take care of yourself!”, you may have not idea how to do that. Try to channel these feelings of irritation and helplessness into an effort to set limits for yourself. Taking care of yourself may sound selfish to a Kozy,but it’s not, it’s essential!

eAnimals: Solomon Wild Things!

eAnimals: Solomon Wild Things!: "Solomon Wild Things: Solomon’s drive to improve not only himself but others can paradoxically be perceived to others as critical and n..."

Solomon Wild Things!

Solomon Wild Things:

Solomon’s drive to improve not only himself but others can paradoxically be perceived to others as critical and negative and may cause others to attempt to avoid him and his opinions. But the truth is that Solomon is harder on himself than anyone else. His active inner critic causes him a great deal of stress when it comes to relaxing or dealing with others and trying to live up to his impossibly high standards.

EAnimal Valentine Wishes

Solomon Please be happy with the card I give you. I have a hard time getting excited over trumped up holidays.

Kozy I do like some attention on Valentine's Day. Please surprise me.

Champ Let's clean out the basement together and then go out to eat to celebrate and discuss our upcoming yard sale.

Picasso You know I like flowers and some special champagne and we could go out to that little place with the harpist. . .

Einstein Let's go to that museum we have been meaning to go to. I went by myself one day, but I would like to go with you. It's nice.

Trooper I'll try to do the right thing for you this Valentine's but I expect I'll miss again.

Zee This Valentine's Day we're going all out! Limo, fancy dinner. . .the works.

Chief Have I ever disappointed you?

Buddy When's Valentine's Day. . .?

EAnimals New Year's Resolutions:

1. Not making any. Doesn't believe in making promises you can't keep--even to your self! Solomon

2. Sleep more, cook less! Kozy

3. Hang out w/o thinking about "moving the ball forward." Champ

4. Cook more, sleep less. Picasso

5. Hang out with friends, or make some new ones! Einstein

6. Trust my own decisions-no second guessing. Trooper

7. Enjoy something simple & quiet. Zee

8. Tell the fam how much I appreciate them. Chief

9. Initiate with friends and family. Buddy