Kozy Wild Things:
But even you can get worn out with all this unselfish activity and altruism and become exhausted. However you may deny or ignore these feelings. You really want to please those around you. You will convince yourself that you enjoy your lifestyle of giving and compromising what you want.
At some point, however it may become too much: When you notice that no one is taking care of you, you may become a little irritated. Well-meaning friends and family may even try to step in and help you set boundaries for yourself. When they say “You need to take care of yourself!”, you may have not idea how to do that. Try to channel these feelings of irritation and helplessness into an effort to set limits for yourself. Taking care of yourself may sound selfish to a Kozy,but it’s not, it’s essential!
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